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[TTVN010] Tween Won’t Pick Up After Themselves? Try This Noticing Trick

They walked past the mess again, didn’t they?This episode isn’t about nagging or chore charts. It’s about helping your tween learn how to notice what’s out of place—and why that one small skill can shift the way your home feels. I’ll walk you through how to teach it without a lecture, what to say (and…

Why Asking for Help Is Harder Than It Looks (And How to Help Your Tween Get Better at It)

Originally shared on Voice Notes with MarinaJoy The real reason your tween’s questions fall flat Often our kids need help. And yet when they ask for help, they’re not actually getting the answer they need to do the thing that they’re trying to do. They don’t know how to formulate the question. And it might…

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The Real Reason Your Tween’s Stuck (Hint: It’s Not Just the Assignment)

Your tween’s stuck, and asking for help doesn’t seem to be helping. In this episode, you’ll get 3 ways to help your child figure out what to ask, so they can get unstuck quicker and with less frustration. https://tween-talk-voice-notes.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com/TTVN009.m4aPodcast (tween-talk-voice-notes): Play in new window | Download

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[HSC012] How to Reset Your Homeschool Rhythm in the Middle of Summer

If your homeschool plans fell apart somewhere between spring and summer, you’re not alone. In this episode, we’re talking about a simple way to reset—without diving back into full curriculum mode. You’ll hear how to finish what matters, name what’s working, and set up a light project month that keeps your tween engaged (and gives…

Why Chores Are Important for Tweens (And Why You Shouldn’t Feel Guilty About It)

Should you get your tween to do chores? If you’re wondering whether it’s reasonable to ask your 9-13 year old to help around the house, the short answer is yes – and you shouldn’t feel guilty about it. As a parent, it’s completely reasonable to have your tween contribute to the upkeep of your household….

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[HSC011] What to Do When Your Tween Loses Motivation Midway Through

You’re not doing anything wrong. It’s just that stretch when the systems are in place, the novelty’s gone, and your tween suddenly forgets how to function. This episode is about what to do when everything feels a little… flat. We’ll talk about why motivation isn’t the goal, how energy (not time) changes everything, and what…

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[HSC010] The real reason your tween keeps saying ‘I don’t know what to do’

If your tween keeps “missing” what the assignment is asking—or spends more time staring at the page than actually doing the work—this episode is for you. We’re talking about why unclear instructions derail independent learning, what to do when your child seems capable but keeps getting stuck, and how one simple tool can save you…

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[TTVN007] Beyond Best Friends – What Your Tween Actually Needs Socially

If you’ve ever worried that your tween doesn’t have enough friends, this episode is for you. MarinaJoy shares three perspective-shifting insights that might completely change how you think about your child’s social life this summer. Spoiler alert: It’s probably not what you think it is. Whether your tween seems to struggle socially or you’re just…